9.3.16 Be kind to one another…



In a world filled with hate and anger, we must seek God more than ever for guidance. You must learn to forgive. Even if it hurts. God forgives, you just have to ask to be forgiven.

It took me a while to figure this out. Looking back, I used to hold a grudge on things that were not worth. Why stain your heart with anger and hate when you could learn to forgive and move on? People say it’s easier said than done…and yes I admit, it takes time. What I don’t understand is why people leave it for a later date. Did God wait to forgive you when you asked to be forgiven? NO. So why delay it any more than you have to?

Psalms 24 talks about having a pure heart will get into heaven. It’s a good read. The real question here is “Do you have a clean heart?” “Have you asked for forgiveness?” Maybe today’s the day you do. I promise you, that once you’ve confessed your sins to God, you will feel the elephant in the room has disappeared and that weight on your shoulders will also be gone! It’s truly an amazing feeling! Try it, and let me know how it goes.

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01.25.2016 Military Wife


I love my Airman, although he drives me bonkers at times, I still love every aspect of him.

With that said, you think you would get used to the feeling you have in the pit of your stomach at the possibility of him deploying….but you don’t. Today Vic said that they are planning a deployment in early 2017; a minimum of 3 months. Why couldn’t they be week deployments so I could think they were mini vacations? What if we have another child and is born in the beginning of 2017? So many what if’s….

The thought about him in a hostile situation keeps me uneasy, but have to stay calm for my kid. She loves daddy so much!! I was hoping that someone out there in the military world, would be able to share his or her story on how they prepared for their loved ones departure.

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1.18.16 Keep your head up


Sit there and think about this one…..


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1.15.15 But YOU can! 💪

Sometimes I feel like I’m running into walls with the lack of sleep, and always on the go, go go! I find myself googling quotes to keep me motivated–just like this one.  Hope you guys are having a good day!2015/01/img_1842.jpg

1.10.15 …Messy Men…

what i want him to look like
Don’t you wish they ALL looked like this…?


I know this is a touchy subject for a person in my household (my husband) but I have to know:

Why not pay attention to detail?

For instance, I came home and  immediately started dinner. I go into my cabinet to get a 9 inch skillet and when I take it out I noticed that the pot is dirty. Normally I’m the one who is in charge of dishes, and by in charge, I mean putting them in the dishwasher. I know I am a Nazi when it comes to checking for clean dishes and to make sure everything is clean before it’s being put back into the cabinets. What I don’t understand is; how my husband can put a dirty skillet away without thinking “hmmmm let me put it back in the dishwasher or let me scrub it by hand.”

messy kitchen

Another example: In the shower he would rather cut open a toothpaste tube instead of going into the closet to get a new one.

toothpaste tube

I’m not too sure why my husband chooses not to pay attention to detail. I find it rather unattractive. 😦

As for my last example–now that February is right around the corner, I’ve already purchased my Valentine’s Day card (over a week ago). How much would you want to bet that my husband will buy my Valentine’s Day card on 2/14/15. How much more would you bet that he’ll purchase it an hour before I come home and all he will do is sign it? I’m not saying that it can’t be purchased the day of, but at least put some words in it.

Do you think I’m CRAZY!? (maybe…)

Well I leave you with this:




1.8.15 Stop the World

Sometime you have to sit still to really see the world around you

Good evening readers!!

I read this in an article this past week and saved it. It comments the following:

“It’s easy to live like a mouse on a wheel: you go to work, you eat, you sleep, you go to work again, and so on, and then it’s the weekend. Make regular time to step off that wheel and reflect on your life”.

Today, spend a few minutes daydreaming on your commute to work. Don’t interrogate yourself during this downtime; simply let thoughts emerge and listen to what your innate wisdom is telling you.

I did just that today! I picked up my kid from the sitters and just relaxed on the ride home. No radio, no singing, no noisy toys. We really didn’t say much to each other either. Not only was it therapeutic, I got a lot of thinking done. Normally my thinking time is in the shower…I’ve must have been a mermaid in another life with all the time I spend showering (thinking).

Still the queen of the shower!

I will need to incorporate this in my daily routine more often. Even if it’s for 3 minutes. Just like you de-clutter your house, work and life; you will really feel like your mind has been de-cluttered by giving it some love. I dare you to try it.

Well that’s my rant for tonight. Hope you guys have a great evening!


1.5.15 Sex

-Good morning readers!!

I apologize for not posting anything worth reading for the past 3 days…I normally write it at night to post first thing in the morning, but I must have messed with the settings to not have this happen any longer. UGH! As I work through the kinks let me tell you about the spontaneous sex episode I had with my husband–

My husband, Vic, is working nights at the moment, so he came home Monday at his normal time of 7am. He immediately takes a shower, and I thought he was going straight to bed. Vic tells me that he has to work day shift on Tues and needed to stay up Monday for as long as he could. I get ready for work as he gets Em ready for the sitters.

I leave and take Em with me and drop her off at the sitters. The drive to work was not all that bad; just COLD. My lunch break is from 12-1, so I thought I’d surprise my hubby. I decide to drive about 15-20 minuets to get home to find him passed out on the couch. 😦


He instantly wakes up and asks if it’s 4:30; the time I get out of work. I said no it’s 12.25pm. My bladder was screaming at this point, so I go to the bathroom. I get to the couch where he is now slightly awake, and ask him to get up and brush his teeth, and to then meet me in the bedroom. As ANY MAN WOULD, he relieved his bladder, and brushed his teeth to meet me underneath the covers.

We had sex for a good 20-25 mins. It was AMAZING! The way he held me tight, the heat of my body against his, even the darkness of the room, made the “session” just that much better! I am not a big kisser in bed, actually I’m not a big kisser at all, but even managed to squeeze a make-out session. YAY GO ME!

Once the fun was over, I ran to the bathroom to wipe/clean all the juices that flowed between each other and got dressed. By then, Vic was on the couch and I said to him “I feel like a prostitute where I come home for one reason and leave” Vic said “I’ll pay you later”. I replied with “YUP! With round TWO!” I immediately walked out of the house not seeing his face or hearing his response.

On the way back to work, I thought to myself “We’re constantly busy, with work, life, and family”. Sometimes doing these spontaneous acts is what keeps that flame alive.  2015 will be filled with more love sessions than you want to read about.


As I conclude this passage, I urge you to do something spontaneous to your loved one and share it in the comments below.’

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